Getting Married?Getting married is an exciting time in life! We are delighted to guide you through the process of how Crossroads can be a part of your great day and in helping shape your marriage. We are passionate in helping couples enter marriage in a committed and Biblical way. Completion of the Pre-Marriage Mentoring program is typically required of any couple getting married by a Crossroads Pastor.
STEP 1 – Select a Pastor to Officiate Your CeremonyIf you are not using a Crossroads Pastor to marry you, but you would like pre-marital counseling through Crossroads or to use our facility, you must still select a Crossroads Pastor to sponsor you through this process. You can contact any of our pastors by phone by calling 919.981.0222.
STEP 2 – Complete A Wedding QuestionnaireEach person getting married must complete a, "Crossroads Wedding Questionnaire," Click
Here. The form will be electronically sent to the Pastor you have requested to officiate your wedding or to your Sponsoring Pastor.
STEP 3 – Secure the Date & Location of the Wedding
If you are planning to use our Church Building on your wedding day, your sponsoring pastor can work with our facilities department to secure a particular room for the ceremony or reception. Contact
Debbie Delaney for details.
STEP 4 – Complete a Premarital Counseling Process
All couples getting married at Crossroads are asked to participate in premarital counseling, typically through our Pre-Marriage Mentoring process. A trained Mentor Couple will meet with you several times prior to your marriage. This mentoring relationship may continue through the first year of marriage. You must be referred to Pre-Marriage Mentoring by your Sponsoring Pastor.
